luni, 29 august 2016

Misunderstanding

Hello everyone!!
Today I want to talk about another topic that it just randomly (or not) poped into my head.
Recently, I got into a fight with my best friend. And it wasn't even a fight it was a misunderstanding of a snap that I've sent.
Now don't get me wrong. For the longest time, I thought that social media is a great way of keeping up with old friends, and I still think that. (I sound like an old ladie....LOL) But sometimes, the massege that you sent might not sound like you wanted to.
Now it happend to me that a certain person (another really close friend of mine) that I don't get to see really often, but we still talk a lot on social edia, told me one time that "You are not okay. But I'll give you a big hug when I'll se you.". And indeed, it was a time when I did not felt really well. And I'm so grateful, that I have a friend like him, that saw right trough that massege.
However, it also happend to me thatsomeone asked me if I was okay, only bcause I was using too many suspense dots. But this is how I usually talk on social media.
My point is, you either are going to talk to the person face to face, or you are going to think what they might understand from that, and if it rally is important to send that. Cuz' sometimes misunderstanding might cost you a frienship that you can't find anywhere else. Anyway, I think that everything is ok now, but I really don't know for sure.
I hope you have a wonderful week and let me know if you have any other things to add in here.
P.S.: I want to post twice a week, I believe on Tuesday and Friday, hope is good for you too.

sâmbătă, 6 august 2016

Anonymity

Helo humans!
Today I want to talk about a subject that came in my mind while I was listening to a sad song. Deeeeeeeepppp! Anyway!!!
As you can see fron the title of this post, it is about anonymity. Why we do it?
First of all, I want to say that for almost half a year this blog was anonymus until one of this post was shared on facebook and I said screw this, my name is Diana Visinescu and if you do know me, it means you are an amazing person and you most probably mean a lot for me.
So why we do this? Because we think we are ugly and we think we are going to be judged? Most of the people that write or make videos on anonymatus, will end up revealing their face at one point so if you are scared of being judged or that you will lose followers, you should get over it because your true friends will stay with you and that is the most important thing.
Why else do we write like this? Because we are affraid that of we express oureselves we are goong to be judged? Well things like this happen all the time. We are so terrified of being judged that we forget to do what we love, and share this with the world. And is soo wrong to act like that. There is always going to be someone out there who will criticise you. You can't do anything about those haters, but YOU CAN stop this getting to you. Ignore them and if you have any social media, take a photo with a bumblebee drown on your hand and use the #fictionalbumblebee so I know we are in this together. The # is rally random but most of you already know about my obsession for bumblebees.
To be honest I'm scared to post this but whooo carrreeesss...right? If I can inspire at least one of you I would be more than supercalifragilosticexpialidoucious.
Wow...this post was intense.
Hope you have a wonderful week and I'll talk to you soon! Luv yea! Bye!
           Diana Visi